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Journal Entry: Mon Nov 14, 2011, 4:27 PM



HOME ISSUES


Home sucks right now, let's put that out there.  My dad is on his last legs, and family is practically begging him to go to the hospital, as we aren't too keen to having someone die inside the house.  And I found out that when my dad does indeed pass away, I, along with my family, are being thrown out by our grandparents.  They said that they cannot support us as well as themselves, and the only way we are supporting ourselves is by my dad.  My mom won't be able to get disability until January or February, and housing wouldn't be applicable until sometime in the spring I guess.  She had found an agency to help out, but after I bombarded her with questions, she admitted that they cannot help me and my brother because my mom is disabled, and we are healthy, young.  However, if we cannot live here, nor go with my mom, we are then homeless.

As I have told people before, (I think) we cannot get jobs because of how far we live from town.  And now, our van is leaking antifreeze, so long trips are out of the question.  My only options at the moment is after my dad passes away, is to get rid of my items and go to a homeless shelter or live with a friend until I can get a job and a place to stay.  I'm really hoping the latter.  Only reason why I'm open about my situation is that a lot of people complain about life, a lot of it trivial.  Now I'm not saying I have it the worse, but I do have it pretty bad at the moment, and a lot of people will agree I guess.  I just want to show people that life can be between a rock and a hard place, like where I am right now.  But don't give up, I'm sure in hell am not.  

PLANS


Well, I need to put some things into motion before time runs out, and I am planning on getting a bank account.  I know I have been saying this, and the only reason why I haven't already is because my mom and dad put it off.  Saying next week, tomorrow, and when that comes, I can't because it's supposed to be a quick trip, not enough room, not enough money, etc.  SO... I think I'm gonna have to do snail mail commissions until I can get that bank account.  I need the money, and I'm running out of time.  Point commissions are being upgraded for how long it has been taking me.  If you want to change the style, then note me which style you want.  I will be updating a money commission journal in a bit.

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:iconmonyyoshi1:
MonyYoshi1 Featured By Owner Nov 26, 2011  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I told my mom about your story and this is what she said:

"You need to get a hold of your church or any church in the area, they have resources that others don't. Once your father does pass you can apply for social security death benifits for minor children. You could talk to your principal or teacher. Most schools have programs for those who are going to be or are homeless. I hope this helps. God Bless you and your family."
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stephnator Featured By Owner Nov 23, 2011  Student Traditional Artist
Very sad. :( Hopefully I could help. :cling:
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:iconbolachinha:
bolachinha Featured By Owner Nov 23, 2011  Student Traditional Artist
and here you have a HUGE hug!!!(hugy yyyyyyyooooouuuu!!!)eh eh XD
=3
hope you are feeling better =)
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:iconmonyyoshi1:
MonyYoshi1 Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2011  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'm sorry I can't help out but hang in there
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xXxMiZuMiXmIkOxXx Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2011  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
i will totally post a journal so people can see and help give you money, if you wish me to.
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Sonicmanic100 Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
im in the semi-same situation, I think the Bank has issued to have our house taken away, but i feel really bad for you, your not gonna have a dad let alone a house if he dies, that's pretty heartbreaking
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narukosasuke Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2011
good luck
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YASSDENSWH Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
holy shit ... wait ... is ur dad all u got ..? .,.. that's .. beyond bad ... well .. i hope things work out ...

.. i'd "hug" u ..but .. some ppl don't want that sometimes .. it makes it worse .. so just in case .. i have to respect that ,..

..(i guess ..those ppl feel pathetic or something ..?IDK.>?)
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TaiVixey Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
#SonicFreaks-United, promoting your cause!~ :salute:

Digging in my wallet to see what I can help with!~ Will note you as soon as I make a decision. :hug: :heart:
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Xandreita93X Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2011  Student Interface Designer
O.o well i will speak in spanish because i dont know much english... read you story make me fell so sad., im always complain and im so stupid sometimes with my parents and can see, you are a great person trying to help and have the iniciative...
espero que puedas solucionar tu problema te deseo los mejores animos y que puedas ayudara tu familia.
quiero que sepas que nosotros en deviantart te apoyamos y que si nesesitas consejos y cosas asi puedes contar con nosotros..
yo te apoyo aqui desde Chile n.n
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Anon371 Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2011
:iconokayguyplz:
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YourBuddyBill Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
If you need anybody to talk to, I will be here.
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Belen-1999 Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
as i read this my heart broke… ;n;
I WISH YOU THE VERY BEST OF LUCK!! >.<
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JBlvr4598 Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Student Photographer
awww...im so sorry...:-( i will keep u in my thoughts and i shall not complain about my life again...i hope something will work out for you...
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awesomestarz Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Student Traditional Artist
What are you gonna do?
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:iconashentar:
Ashentar Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Getting a bank account is my first priority right now so I don't have to rely on snail mail. Next we are trying to straighten out where we are going to temporary move to. A lot of it is a bit fuzzy, I don't have a solid plan as of this moment. But I will in a few days when I'm trying to work everything out.
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awesomestarz Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Student Traditional Artist
Alright.
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TsawlaEltuTsamsiyu Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Student General Artist
I can't send money at the moment. I desperately want to help with your situation. When are you opening an account (if you can)? When are you getting PayPal (if you have internet access)? I will send Snail Mail if I have to, but I WILL HELP YOU.
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:iconashentar:
Ashentar Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
I already have PAYPAL, but I don't have a bank account to link it with. I dunno when I'm able to get an account, perhaps in a few days now.
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TsawlaEltuTsamsiyu Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Student General Artist
Either way, I'm going to help!
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Leijon-Heart Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Student Digital Artist
Unfortunatly I won't be able to commission you, but what I can do is repost this. I know that I found this journal from a repost and I do have a 'decent' amount of watchers :)
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:iconashentar:
Ashentar Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you~ :heart: <3
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Gummi-Bubble Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Sorry, dear, I can't help with giving money for a commission, though I love your art. I've spread the word though!
[link]
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:iconashentar:
Ashentar Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you <3
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:iconfeline-gamer:
Feline-gamer Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Sorry i can't commission you now, but i'll help faving this journal, sharing and.... Y'know, all that stuff
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:iconashentar:
Ashentar Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you <3 ;; Much is appreciated~
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:iconskyfist:
skyfist Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
im sorry your in this shit...
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sakurafan123 Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I really wish I can help you, I can see how upset you are and I wish I could give you money and such but I'm afraid I can not do much, I hope your luck changes and will get better again. People are praying for you
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:iconashentar:
Ashentar Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you for your kind words. c:> I shall do my best to get out of this situation.
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SonicWolvelina99 Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Wow. This sucks. No seriously, this sucks. I will spread the word.
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:iconashentar:
Ashentar Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you~ :heart:
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SHRRN-A-FWOOSH Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I SHALL DONATE AN ENORMOUS AMOUNT OF POINTS.

WILL THAT BE A-OK?
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:iconashentar:
Ashentar Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
And thank you, the donation will help me keep my premium. <3 One less thing to worry about
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SHRRN-A-FWOOSH Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
X)
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:iconashentar:
Ashentar Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
That will be fine :c Are you sure though?
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:iconshrrn-a-fwoosh:
SHRRN-A-FWOOSH Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
.......


Wait. I'll send you something else...
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:iconashentar:
Ashentar Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Then you want your points back right?
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:iconshrrn-a-fwoosh:
SHRRN-A-FWOOSH Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Meh.

Anything you like.
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:iconleopardlynx:
LeopardLynx Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
she doesn't need points, man. points will not support her irl.
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:iconshrrn-a-fwoosh:
SHRRN-A-FWOOSH Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Awww...

What, then?
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:iconleopardlynx:
LeopardLynx Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Snail Mail is sending money through the mail, dude. She doesn't need points, she needs REAL money.
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SHRRN-A-FWOOSH Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Problem is, I don't have a PayPal account. And I'm not allowed to make one.
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:iconleopardlynx:
LeopardLynx Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
What part of "send money through mail" do you not understand? Are you even reading what I'm telling you? >_>
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SHRRN-A-FWOOSH Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yes.

I can't snail mail. Or even just send a simple freaking mail.

I can only send electronically, but another deviant said only snail mail.
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:iconleopardlynx:
LeopardLynx Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You make absolutely no sense.
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Tonythunder Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011
she needs snail mail commissions (where you put money in an envelope and mail it to her and she'll get the money slowly but surely hence the term snail mail)
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:iconshrrn-a-fwoosh:
SHRRN-A-FWOOSH Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I can't. I just checked.

Any other ways?
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:icontonythunder:
Tonythunder Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011
nope,only snail mail
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:iconshrrn-a-fwoosh:
SHRRN-A-FWOOSH Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Rrrgh...

*sigh*
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:icontonythunder:
Tonythunder Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2011
sorry but that's how it goes
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